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Curious To Try Anal Sex?
By Suzie Harris
Why try anal sex?
*The anus and rectum have so many muscles and nerve endings and when they are touched in the right way the stimulation is amazing.

Getting started...
* Make sure you are relaxed. Try clenching and unclenching your butt muscles just to get your butt relaxed.


* So you feel nice and fresh when starting with anal play, give your bottom a wash before engaging in any play.

* The best way to get started with anal play is to experiment yourself. Try experimenting in the shower with a soapy finger, and gently insert a finger into the anus. Remember, anal play should not hurt so if you are feeling uncomfortable change what you are doing, or stop doing it all together.

* Experimenting in the bedroom is also a great way to explore your anus. The anus is very sensitive and does not stretch as easily as a vagina so it is always best to use lube when playing with your bottom. Once you have the lube on your finger, try rubbing your finger around the anus. This automatically relaxes the muscles and will make it easier to insert your finger, toy, or penis into the hole.

* Remember to be gentle. Insert just a little bit of finger at a time, getting your anus used to this sensation. Keep gently pulling the finger in and out, gradually increasing the amount of finger you are inserting into your anus.

* When exploring with your finger, try rubbing your finger in circles in the anus, seeing if there is a particular spot that you like to be touched. Keep experimenting gently with your well lubed finger.

* toys like anal Beads are a great way to

get started. You can gently ease them into yourself and get your used to the sensation. Just insert one bead at a time, taking it slowly and gently.

Once you are comfortable...
* Once your have explored yourself, get started with your partner. Remember to use plenty of lube.

* Remember to communicate and tell your partner if it is uncomfortable in any way.

* If you are a girl, get your partner to massage your clitoris at the same time. This will add stimulation to your most sensitive spot.

* Take it slowly and use plenty of lube. The first time might feel uncomfortable and you might decide it is not for you, however you might really like the stimulation.

Some different positions to try

* The common position is in the same position as doggie style, however there are other positions to try as well. When in doggie style position, keep your bottom raised high in the air, and try getting your chest as close to the bed as possible. This will open your anus up even more.

* Try lying on your back with your legs in the air, you can use your arms to hold them there. This may feel like your anus is more open and you may be more comfortable on your back.

* Try standing next to a wall and bend over as far as you want.

* While in any of these positions, you or your partner can rub or stroke your clitoris for extra stimulation.

* Experiment and see what works for the both of you. You might love or hate it. Don't forget to use plenty of lube and if it hurts in any way stop what you are doing as this is supposed to be pleasureable not painful.
Written by Suzie Harris, an expert on all things that happen in the bedroom, particularly love, sex toys and romance. She is the chief contributor to The Lazy Stud www.thelazystud.com.au

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